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So this girl started working where I work a few weeks back and I found out the other day that she is feeling me. I am not going to be mean here but she isn't my type. Like she is on the thinner side and just really shy. I don't want to go into detail but I am just not attracted to her like that. How do I let her know I am not interested without being mean about it?
I think honesty is the best policy. Don't just avoid her or whatever or not speak to her as it'd come across rude. Just let her know you see her as a friend and say that you're not really interested in dating currently or something like that. Good luck!
"He better go capture this moment and hope it don't pass him"
I would just tell her you aren't interested. Maybe she is getting mixed singles from you? Like I have had girls like me and didn't even know it because I jwas just generally being nice. I had to tell them otherwise. You can just say you aren't interested in a relationship right now if you want but then she still might keep her hopes open for it.